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How do I get my boyfriend to send me flowers, with out having to ask?

It's our anniversary tomorrow, and I really want flowers. I'm not sure if he's doing much for our anniversary... but flowers would be nice. Is there anyway to get him to get me them, with out asking?

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  1. give some up
  2. Drop lots of hints.
  3. Hell if I know. I've been with mine for 2.5 years and he still has to be booted in the balls to do anything right. Oh well. They're men. It's in their nature.
  4. Honestly if he doesn't want to do it on his own free will it wont happen unless you request it...and it wont be meaningful anyways...
  5. write him a letter!
  6. give hints haha randomly start saying how much you love flowers' maybe he'll get the idea btw. congrats on ur anniversary :)
  7. Hint at what flowers you love most. Then say "I can't wait for our anniversary". Or at least something relatively like that, so he'll get the point but you don't have to sound demanding.
  8. no... use your yaphole what do you think the power of speech is good for eh?
  9. hint to him what kind of flowers you like and then say something like its our anniversary
  10. I don't think there is. I tried dropping hints with mine at one point, saying "you don't really have to get me a present or anything... maybe just some flowers..." and it didn't work (though he did get me a nice present, so that was fine).
  11. Sing "you dont send me flowers anymore" anytime hes around
  12. break up with him
  13. well how the hell would he know u want flowers. just mabie look on a pic of a catolog of flowers and say o i wish i could have flowers like those
  14. tell him your favorite flower and see if he gets the message but if not DUMP HIS @**
  15. maybe just say i wish this place had more color or i need a center piece for the table. what do you think i should get ? and if he said flowers say humm yeah that would be lovely.
  16. i bought my gf flowers on monday to her job while she was working--just because ;) if he doesnt love you or isnt the lubby-dubby type then youre SOL
  17. to get a guy to get you anything you have to hint at what you want. If a birthday or anniversary or anything is coming up most guys have no clue what to get there gf's, so they look for hints. All you have to do is things like when you see flowers say how much you love them, how pretty they are etc. Unless he's an idiot he should catch on
  18. ask a friend of yours to ask him if he is doing anything special for your anniversary, if he says yes then she/he should ask what. if he says no, dont get to upset...he maybe lying cuz he knew you told ur friend to ask him.. sorry if this sounds confusing but i hope it helps! : )
  19. get on the phone with one of your friends and sit beside him and be like " oh really your boyfriend just sent you flowers, I wish mine would do that.""your so lucky" :]
  20. tell him how rude people can be, like...not giving each other presents on their anniversary...be upset about the world and how heartless people are. maybe he'll understand your wants and needs then. that's what I do. it seems to work.
  21. do alot of hints like open a magazine and look for flowers , then go up to him and say "these are really pretty" hope i helped
  22. tell him something like- "oh i just love the smell of {fave flowers name}; those are my favorite flowers in the world. i loveeeeee when my {someones name (that he wouldnt know)} gives me {fave flowers} from his/hers garden!"
  23. Well talk about flower and what type of flowers you like you don't have to be obvious just mention it in a conversation and happy anniversary hope for the best
  24. you can give him hints by pointing out beautiful flowers and or saying how romantic you think it is for a guy to send flowers and I would leave it there. He either gets it or he doesn't. But really, remember that it is the thought behind the gift more than it is the gift itself. He may actually suprise you with something even more romantic than you thought the flowers were. You never know. But still, I would focus more on the gesture and the guy making it than the gift.
  25. send him the money. because they are no jobs out their. another way is maybe hint. that you like flowers? maybe all he is thinking is how well you blossom down south.
  26. Call a girlfriend without your boyfriend being around and tell her what you want and for her to play along. Have her call you back and while talking to her in the same room as your boyfriend say something like. Wow, she got flowers, she's so lucky, I wish someone would get me flowers sometimes. That way your dropping a hint. But guys are sometimes not so bright when it comes to getting a gift. Well not sometimes, most of the time. I have gotten to the point that I hint a lot or outright ask for what I want. Don't know what's wrong with men when it comes to things like that. Guess they just don't pay attention.
  27. talk to one of his friends.. .. or if you have kids.. tell your kids how much you like flowers.. and tell them about tomorrow. bottom line tho.. is guys are kinda set.. if he's a flower/anniversary type guy.. he'll egget you some flowers.. if he's not.. he'll need some prompting .. would be nice .. if you loved him for who he is.. and spent your time worrying about what to get him.. and accepting him .. for who he is.. tomorrow.. wether it's a new car outside.. flowers.. or he forgot.. .. i think u need to focuse more on the person.. and not the date. you married him.. all his flaws were included.. no warrenty. so if you find fault tomorrow.. find it in yourself.. .. forgive yourself.. and love him.. cus he's the same guy u loved when u married. good luck and congrats 2 u both on your anniversary.. you defied the odds yet another year....
  28. send yourself flowers, put his name on the card, then thank him as if he sent them... he'll always wonder who bailed him out and I bet next year he'll be ordering his own flowers!
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