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Should I give my ex-girlfriend flowers for what would have been our anniversary?

We broke up a few weeks ago. We're on really good terms and hang together a lot. Tomorrow would have been our 3 year anniversary. Can I buy her flowers and not seem too aggressive? I want to get back together, but I don't want to appear desperate, I want to make sure she feels it is completely her decision (it is, of course) to get back together. So is this an ok present or should I just pretend the day doesnt exist?

Public Comments

1. No don't. You two are no longer a couple. It may make her feel uncomfortable. You are giving her flowers for what WOULD be your anniversary had you not broke up. I personally think it's tacky.
2. I think you should give her flowers, but not because it's your anniversary. Give the flowers to her as a sign of your friendship, but only say that your giving it to her because your friends. If she realizes that it would've been your anniversary on that day then she'll most likely be extra happy! :D